Mares versus Geldings: Is There Really a Difference?
Ask any group of horse people whether mares or geldings make better riding or working horses, and you’re bound to hear a lively debate. A lot of riders have strong feelings about the temperaments of mares versus geldings.
But are these stereotypes accurate? Does gender really dictate a horse’s personality and suitability as a partner?
This article will explore the differences, similarities, and myths surrounding mares and geldings. We’ll delve into common stereotypes, consider individual personalities, and emphasize the importance of the rider-horse connection. Ultimately, we’ll show how both mares and geldings can be excellent partners, depending on individual personalities and rider compatibility.
Understanding Mares: Beyond the Stereotypes
Mares often get a bad rap. People sometimes see them as moody, unpredictable, and temperamental, especially when they’re in heat. Some people even think mares are more sensitive than geldings and require a more experienced rider.
And it’s true that hormonal fluctuations can affect a mare’s behavior. Because they’re so sensitive to the energy and emotions of their rider, they can also be more reactive.
But mares have some amazing qualities, too. They’re often praised for their intelligence, athleticism, and eagerness to please. They tend to bond strongly with their owners and can become highly responsive partners.
Many riders find that a mare will give you everything she’s got once she trusts you.
“Mares will give you 150% in return once they trust you,” says horse trainer Rebecca Rigdon-Blake.
That sensitivity can translate to a deep connection with the rider.
Managing mare sensitivity
The key to working successfully with a mare is to establish trust and communicate clearly. When you’re attuned to their cues and needs, their performance can really shine.
If a mare’s heat cycles are causing significant behavioral issues, there are hormone management products that may help. For example, Regu-Mate is a synthetic progestin that can suppress estrus in mares.
Geldings: The Steady Companions
Geldings are often seen as the “easygoing” choice in the horse world. Let’s take a look at some common perceptions, advantages, and potential drawbacks of choosing a gelding.
Common Perceptions of Geldings
Geldings are often stereotyped as being more even-tempered, reliable, and consistent than mares. They’re generally considered easier to handle, too, and less prone to those infamous mood swings. For this reason, they’re often recommended for novice or less experienced riders, as they tend to be more forgiving of rider errors.
Advantages of Geldings
One of the biggest benefits of owning a gelding is that consistent personality and energy level. You pretty much know what you’re going to get each day, which makes them predictable partners. Because they don’t have the hormonal fluctuations of mares, their behavior tends to be more stable.
Geldings can also excel in a wide range of riding disciplines. Their trainability and willingness to work make them versatile partners, whether you’re into dressage, jumping, trail riding, or something else entirely.
Potential Drawbacks of Geldings
While geldings have many positive qualities, there are a few potential downsides to consider. Some research suggests that the hormonal changes after gelding can result in a horse that’s more laid-back and amiable, but also less sensitive. This means they might become less responsive compared to some mares.
It’s important to remember that not all geldings are created equal. Just like people, individual horses have unique personalities. So, while geldings generally fit a certain profile, you’ll still find plenty of variation within the group.
Individual Personalities: The Deciding Factor
Generalizations about mares and geldings can be misleading. Every horse is an individual, and its personality and temperament are far more important than its sex.
A lot of riders’ preferences are shaped by their personal experiences. If you’ve had good luck with geldings in the past, you might tend to favor them. But it’s important to keep an open mind when you’re selecting a horse.
When choosing a horse, consider these factors:
- Skills and experience. What do you want to do with your horse? What skills and experience are you seeking?
- Temperament. What kind of energy level would you like in a horse? A calm, laid-back horse? Or a high-energy athlete?
- Non-negotiables. What are the things you absolutely must have in a horse? Make a list of these qualities to keep in mind as you shop.
I’ve shown mares for many years, and I’ve had great success with them. One of my best horses was a mare I bought as a young horse. She was a willing partner, and we achieved a lot together.
My friend Lindsay rode geldings for years. She says she used to think that mares were too temperamental, but she recently switched to a mare and has been very happy with her. She finds her mare to be very responsive and high-performing.
On the other hand, I’ve also known riders who prefer geldings because they find them to be more consistent in their personality and energy level.
Ultimately, the most important thing is to find a horse with whom you have a strong connection. A good partnership is built on mutual trust, respect, and understanding. Focus on finding a horse whose personality and energy align with your needs and preferences, and don’t let gender stereotypes get in the way.
Frequently Asked Questions
Are mares harder to ride than geldings?
Not necessarily, but some people find mares more challenging due to hormonal fluctuations during their estrous cycle. These hormonal changes can sometimes lead to moodiness or resistance. However, a well-trained mare with a good temperament can be just as enjoyable to ride as a gelding.
Are mares or geldings calmer?
Generally, geldings are considered calmer and more consistent in temperament. Mares, due to their hormonal cycles, can experience mood swings and be more reactive at certain times of the month. However, individual personalities vary greatly, and some mares are naturally very calm.
Is it better to own a mare or gelding?
There’s no universal “better” choice. It depends entirely on your individual preferences, riding goals, and experience level. Mares can be incredibly rewarding partners, while geldings are often favored for their consistent temperaments.
Why do people prefer geldings over mares?
People often prefer geldings because of their generally more predictable and consistent behavior. Geldings don’t experience hormonal fluctuations, making them less prone to mood swings and potentially easier to handle, especially for less experienced riders. This can contribute to a more enjoyable and reliable riding experience.
In Summary
Mares and geldings both have unique qualities, and either can be a great partner, depending on the individual horse’s personality and how well it matches with its rider.
When you’re choosing a horse, try to keep an open mind about whether it’s a mare or a gelding. While generalizations can be helpful, the best way to decide is to spend time with each horse to see if you connect.
Ultimately, the best horse for you is the one whose energy resonates with you and whose goals align with your own, regardless of its sex.